Organisation tips for couples moving in together

And with it, perhaps, a proposal from your partner. If you're planning to take the next step with your loved one, you're in good company. Although nowadays most couples already move in together before getting mar-
ried, the proportion of women and men who live together long-term without a marriage certificate remains relatively low:

Women and men aged between 25 and 44 today married an average of 2,2 years after moving into a joint household with their partner (first marriages only). 

Well then, off on an adventure! But before you start, there's a lot to consider: Are you moving into your boyfriend's place? Is your girlfriend moving in with you? How do you combine households – and does the furniture match? 

We believe that a relationship will be even happier in an organised living space. Below you'll find three ways to achieve just that.  

Clarify expectations before moving in together

When choosing flatmates, we tend to be critical, set house rules, discuss costs and get a feel for each other's quirks. Why do we skip these preparations with our partners? 

Put together a logistical plan before letting your loved one move in. It might seem strange at first glance, but trust us: you can only benefit from it. 

Discuss:

The overall budget in terms of rent, utility bills, new furniture, groceries, etc. Everything you plan to buy together from now on. 

Your schedules. You might know each other's plans quite well, but avoid unpleasant surprises by checking your diaries. You don't want a visit to the future in-laws to fall through at short notice.

The cleaning rota. Yes, that feels very much like a shared flat, but it's important to clarify expectations here. Find out who likes doing which chores, and agree on how often you'll both clean. 

Set up your own spaces

When you move in together, you combine not only your lives, but also your favourite habits (and bad habits) and furniture. If the layout allows you to set up your own area, take advantage of the opportunity. 

That could mean one takes the chest of drawers and the other gets the wardrobe. But it could also mean you don't have to part with that old armchair you love so much (even if your partner can't stand it at all...) 

Whatever you decide, the end result should be that you both have separate areas you can organise as you please. 

Rent a storage unit

Yes, yes... You love your bed, your partner thinks theirs is much more comfortable. Avoid arguing over who has to get rid of their furniture and rent a storage unit. 

This allows you to furnish your joint home with furniture from both sides without anyone missing out – as you can simply store the rest. It's also a great solution for couples sharing a small flat.